Episode 5 Dating Ain’t Hard, People Are

Lotto Marie and Ray Etc are back at the bodega with chicken, waffles, and some real relationship truths. In this episode, Lotto opens up about being a natural giver, building a man from scratch, and finally closing down her Build-a-Bae Workshop. They get into the highs and lows of dating as grown folks with standards, and why being single can be easy—but dating? Whew, that’s the real challenge. From the danger of dating super fans to the struggle of finding someone who sees you beyond your stage presence, they share hilarious, heartfelt stories that hit home.

Plus, Ray ETC breaks down the art of thoughtful giving, why Trader Joe’s chili oil might just be love language, and why comedians need professional headshots (no more sticker pics!).

🔑 Topics Include: Why being a giver is beautiful—but exhausting without reciprocity The difference between support and smothering What it really means to “add value” to someone’s life Dating as a public figure vs. being loved for your private self Comedy hustle, community, and giving credit where it’s due This one’s for the healed, healing, and hilarious. Pull up a plate and press play. #OnMyWayToTheBodega #BuildABaeIsClosed #LottoKnows